AsianLonelyHearts.com is one of the few sites, paid or free, which actually checks new member profiles. There have been no reports of scammers at AsianLonelyHearts. One of the reason AsianLonelyHearts is so 'dead', is we keep the scammers out!
Most people are used to busier, larger dating sites. Many of the profiles on these busier appearing sites are attributable to scammers. Some sites even 'seed' the dating site with fake profiles, to make the site look larger.
Romancescamsnow.com claims AsianLonelyHearts.com is a 'limited site, with many scammers', and gives it a rating of '3'.
They also claim AsianLonelyHearts has 'uncontrolled scammer behavior', which is a blatant lie.
Romancescamsnow.com presents no evidence of scammers on AsianLonelyHearts.com, which should be easy to do, since they claim there are 'many scammers'.
I frequently review dating sites, and post my findings at Dragonladies.org.
Most of these reviews appear here.
Romancescamsnow.com rates three known 'problem' sites as a '10'. chnlove.com, idateasia.com, and charmingdate.com.
As a webmaster, I know these sites pay high commissions to affiliate advertisers.
I also recognize that many scams and other consumer complaints have been attributed to these sites, which are all owned by the same company.
You don't need to take my word for it, check GOOGLE! Let's see what we can find about these sites that romancescamsnow.com rates a 'ten', on GOOGLE.
Let's start with charmingdate.com:
63 consumer complaints at this site:
Scambook
and another:
Ripoffreport.com
Here's a complaint about chnlove.com
xchnlove.com on ripoff report
And another, on charmingdate.com:
Romancescam.com
Here's one on all three sites:
Read here
How about chnlove?:
sitejabber.com
More on chnlove, read the comments, and understand some of the positive comments are posted by 'ringers':
click here to read
Here's a blog covering scams on chnlove:
http://chnlovescam.blogspot.com/
Chnlove on scambook:
read here
idateasia.com on sitejabber:
Sitejabber.com
idateasia.com on complaintsboard.com:
idateasia on complaintsboard
You can read about an 'agency' for Idateasia.com, that was raided in the Philippines at Dragonladies.org.
The fraud associated with these sites has been discussed on my anti-scam site for years, and precede me setting up AsianLonelyHearts.com.
Click here to see the chnlove/idateasia forum at dragonladies.org
These sites play men for suckers. They charge you membership fees, charge for messages with ladies who are often fake, and allow fraudulent 'agencies' to operate unchecked.
They are good at burying real complaints on the internet in fake glowing reviews, and attacking sites or people who try to expose them.
Romancescamsnow.com may be an agent of these sites, or just some person trying to make money from the gullible men who will spend money at these sites, earning them a commission.
I encourage romancescamsnow.com to identify scammers who are members of AsianLonelyhearts.com!
I check each profile, and probably only approve 1 out of 5 new members. The members I list and post as scammers were never active on the site, they were screened out. They never had a chance to contact a member of AsianLonelyHearts.com! I can only think of a handful of sites, paid or free, that actually do this. It's not that much trouble, but most sites will not spend the time. They are happy to throw up a few disclaimers, and hide behind them.
Romancescamsnow.com has an agenda. They appear to be an agent of these fraudulent dating sites. Some of the scam information they post is legitimate, whether it was copied from other sites, or not, I don't know?
I'm used to the scammers not being happy about the information I post about them. I'm used to threats, even threats of bodily harm.
I have never charged the many people I have helped any fees, and never will. I run AsianLonelyHearts.com with the intention of it becoming an example of how dating sites can be run, free, and safe from scammers. This is a threat to your average dating site operator, who is only interested in making money, with as little effort as possible. I don't expect to make money, although there are some advertising banners on the site I hope will eventually generate a trickle of income to cover the costs of the site.
Do your own research on any dating site you are a member of, or considering joining. Google 'site name scam', and see what you find?
Just remember, some affluent paid sites spends lots of money and effort to plug the internet with fake testimonials, and cover up complaints. They're making lots of money from gullible people, they can afford to!
Never send money to somebody you only know from the internet.
Always expect to see a face on webcam.
Paying for 'translations' on a dating site is not smart, there is too much fraud related to this. If you can't communicate directly with somebody, what kind of relationship do you actually think you will have?
I was involved in anti-scam work before I actually tried online dating, myself. I've met both good, and bad ladies, as well as waded throught thousands of scammers. I continue to plug away at this with the hope I can help a few decent people avoid scams, and maybe find other decent people. If you prefer dwelling in a fantasy world, I can't help you, and it may get expensive!
