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Sunday, February 15, 2015

I don't like facebook!

Facebook scares me!    Why?  Too many clueless people, expose too much personal information on a site crawling with scammers!

I just set up a profile on Facebook, and 3 of the first 'people you may know' they suggested I add as friends are using stolen pictures.

Two of the pictures have been reported in use, on the internet, by West African scammers.

The third is probably used by West African scammers, who claim they are a white lawyer in the UK.
The real man in the picture is a lawyer in the UK, but you can find him online under a different name.

LADIES!  Please do not accept 'friend' requests from strangers on facebook.   Do not talk or chat with anyone who will not show a face on webcam.
NEVER SEND MONEY, or give your bank account information to somebody you only know from the internet!

These scammers will steal money from you, and possibly ruin your life.  If you help them with money transactions, you may end up in prison.

 
Ladies, you are not stupid.   You won't go to sleep at night without locking your doors.
 You don't let strangers into your home who knock on your door, late at night.  
You don't hand your purse to random people to look through.

The internet is no different than your home.   You need to be smart, and protect yourself.
There are fake people who will coo a few sweet words, smile at you, (Often with a stolen picture of an innocent man), and steal everything you have.

Learn to protect yourself.  Most websites will spit out some disclaimer phrases, and make some noise about 'security'.    You are the only person who can stop this.

Expect to see a face that matches the picture on webcam, or don't chat with them.

Use a second email account to give to new friends you meet online, or a second chat ID.
This second ID should not be used to conduct personal business or contact with friends, and family.

If you run into somebody suspicious, you walk away from that account.   Nothing is harmed, they should not know who you are, or have sufficient info to figure it out.


AsianLonelyHearts.com is looking for real people, who are serious about finding somebody!

AsianLonelyHearts.com checks each new profile to keep most scammers, out.    You will not get this level of security on most dating sites, free, or paid.  They don't even try.

Right now, AsianLonelyHearts.com has more active ladies, than men.   There are ladies online, every day, waiting to chat with serious men.   Why don't you give us a try?

Create a profile, upload a picture, and wait until your profile is checked, and approved.

We have free chat, and you can see who is online at any given time, if you are registered, and logged in.

Are you serious about finding somebody?   Why waste your time with fakes, and scammers.

Give us a try!

Thursday, February 12, 2015

Older Asian ladies on dating sites are often overlooked

It never fails.   New guys show up at my site, sign up, and mostly pay attention to ladies who are 20 years younger, or more, while attractive ladies of a more suitable age are ignored.

If you are a middle-aged man, with some fantasy that you can have real, long term relationship with a much younger Asian lady, you may be setting yourself up for a rude awakening.

The chances of having a long term, honest relationship with a 'too young' lady are pretty slim, although many men are willing to gamble with this.

In the meantime, some very accomplished, attractive, and sincere ladies are going unnoticed.

The older ladies are usually more serious about finding a real relationship, that will last.   

The parameters I suggest for guys who hope to find a real lady in Asia for a serious relationship apply to these mature ladies.

Find one who works, and has a stable life, now.
(They're less likely to be looking for financial rescue)

It's very possible to find an attractive lady, with no children, or grown children, if that is a priority for you.
(I like children, but they present financial support and  possibly immigration problems)

In many SE Asian countries, the prospects for love and marriage for older Asian ladies are pretty slim, which is one reason they will consider a 'western' man.     Of course, they are also hoping for a stable, secure, life.    Sometimes career progress is limited, or ending, also.


Over the years I've chatted with many Asian ladies, of all ages, some who remain friends.
I've found that the older ladies, and we're not talking 'senior citizens' have more realistic goals in finding a mate, and are less likely to be primarily concerned with money, or immigration to a new country.
Please don't ignore them!

AsianLonelyHearts.com is a free, and safe 'Asian' dating site.

Join AsianLonelyHearts, set up a profile, upload a picture.   Please allow up to 24 hours for your profile to be checked, and approved.   We do this to keep most scammers and fake off of our site.    We try to have real people on our site, unlike most sites.
 Say 'Hi' to a lady of interest, and see who is available to chat with.  Chat and messaging are free for registered members.