Older Asian ladies on dating sites are often overlooked

It never fails.   New guys show up at my site, sign up, and mostly pay attention to ladies who are 20 years younger, or more, while attractive ladies of a more suitable age are ignored.

If you are a middle-aged man, with some fantasy that you can have real, long term relationship with a much younger Asian lady, you may be setting yourself up for a rude awakening.

The chances of having a long term, honest relationship with a 'too young' lady are pretty slim, although many men are willing to gamble with this.

In the meantime, some very accomplished, attractive, and sincere ladies are going unnoticed.

The older ladies are usually more serious about finding a real relationship, that will last.   

The parameters I suggest for guys who hope to find a real lady in Asia for a serious relationship apply to these mature ladies.

Find one who works, and has a stable life, now.
(They're less likely to be looking for financial rescue)

It's very possible to find an attractive lady, with no children, or grown children, if that is a priority for you.
(I like children, but they present financial support and  possibly immigration problems)

In many SE Asian countries, the prospects for love and marriage for older Asian ladies are pretty slim, which is one reason they will consider a 'western' man.     Of course, they are also hoping for a stable, secure, life.    Sometimes career progress is limited, or ending, also.


Over the years I've chatted with many Asian ladies, of all ages, some who remain friends.
I've found that the older ladies, and we're not talking 'senior citizens' have more realistic goals in finding a mate, and are less likely to be primarily concerned with money, or immigration to a new country.
Please don't ignore them!

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