This blog is connected to the free, safe, Asian dating site, AsianLonelyHearts.com. We want to help you avoid scammers, and 'bad' dating sites.
Sunday, March 30, 2014
idatevietnamese.com Keep out!
There's no excuse to run a dating site like this.
Keep out!
More information at Dragonladies.org
Sunday, March 9, 2014
Asian ladies, are you tired of scams and other problems you have on most dating sites?
I check each new profile, and picture, something most dating sites don't do. We are a free, small,and safe dating site. I have been researching internet romance scams for years, and apply my knowledge and experience to running this site.
Now is a good time to join AsianLonelyHearts! We have a higher percentage of Men as members, than ladies. Please consider joining us.
While we are still a small site, and probably will stay that way, you have a better chance of getting noticed at AsianLonelyHearts than at other bigger sites. I do encourage 'mature' ladies to join us!
Please create a profile, and upload a picture.
Good luck!
Tuesday, December 24, 2013
cherryfun.com, a site to avoid
There's no excuse for a dating site to have these obvious 'fake' profiles. Detecting the stolen pictures is very easy. You just have to take a few seconds.
Most dating sites do not care if the profiles are fake, and some actually seed the site with fake profiles, to draw more members. Why waste your time with fakes and scammers?

Find anybody's photos, videos and blogs instantly. You may be surprised!
Tuesday, November 5, 2013
granvillebumatay92@ukart.com Banned
Username: ErnestineP
Stolen picture (Hair model pic)
Claims to be in Lebanon, IP was 151.237.190.35 (Reported source of spam in Sweden)
Most dating sites don't bother to check new members. AsianLonelyhearts does!
Saturday, October 19, 2013
misshanna470@yahoo.com BANNED
The picture used is stolen, and in heavy use in previous scams.
misshanna470@yahoo.com
username: sweetluv
IP: 41.83.21.249 SENEGAL
Find anybody's photos, videos and blogs instantly. You may be surprised!
Saturday, September 21, 2013
bruce.erickson1@aol.com Bruce Erickson
The IP he registered from is: 188.126.70.21 Sweden
He claims to be there, but this IP has been used in scams before, also.
Report on scammer using this picture at Romancescam.com
AsianLonelyHearts.com checks each new profile.
This is a West African scammer, pretending to be a White man. He will try to steal your money.
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
janelolds20@gmail.com SENEGAL SCAMMER
Monday, May 27, 2013
harry_boston26@live.com SCAMMER
The picture he uses is stolen, does not depict any person involved in this scam, and has been reported in use by scammers, previously.
harry_boston26@live.com
IP: 173.254.219.146 (IP previously reported in use in scams)
Always expect to see a live face on webcam. Never send money to somebody you only know from the internet, or phone calls.
Saturday, May 18, 2013
'Mature' Asian ladies, do you realize you are a target for scammers?
West African scammers are generally young, black males, from the nations of Nigeria, Ivory Coast, Senegal, and Ghana.
They will pretend to be anyone, or anything, online. When they try to scam middle-aged ladies, they pretend to be anything from handsome soldiers, to middle-aged businessmen and professionals.
The pictures they use are STOLEN, and the real person in the pictures is not who you are in contact with, or has anything to do with the scam.
The 'stolen' picture aspect is one primary reason you must insist on seeing a face on webcam, and not accept any excuses for not seeing this person on cam.
Scammers will not be able to show 'that face' on a webcam, with the exception of a few scammers who have short videos of 'that' person, or a person who looks similar, they can feed over a webcam, making it appear that person is live, and on cam.
The 'recordings' are usually easy to detect, if you pay attention. They will repeat, or will be of short duration, and the scammer will claim they are having 'cam' problems. If you are in contact with a real person, and hope for a real relationship with them, it is normal to expect to see that person often on webcam.
There is no excuse to not show a face on webcam. Most modern laptops have them, many or most home computers, and most internet cafes, also.
A person serious about finding 'love' online, will have a cam.
These scammers will often claim to be affluent, and world travelers. This gives them excuses to be stranded in various remote countries, and ask you for financial help.
Do not send money! Real 'world travelers' have resources for emergencies like this, and can always contact the embassy of the nation they claim to be from for help.
Rich men, and men who work for large, international corporations, have resources for emergencies, and just need to make a phone call. Don't send money!
These scammers may also claim they are on the way to meet you, in your country, and ask you to accept a package they are sending you. Do not give your address, or pay fees for a 'package'. They may claim the package contains gifts for you, family treasures, funds they are trying to hide, or materials they need for the work they claim they do. You will be asked to pay 'courier' or customs fees for the FAKE package, to FAKE courier, or customs people. There is no package!
The sole purpose of this 'package' is to extract money from you. No other reason. No love. No real person. It's a scam.
They may talk to you on the phone, and give you a phone number to contact them with that is appropriate for where they claim to be, or from. Please remember, it is very easy to set up 'fake' phone numbers, for any city or country in the world. I can set up a phone number that is for China, the UK, USA, or anywhere, and be anywhere in the world.
If you talk to them on the phone, you may notice the English they speak has an accent? They will claim the accent is due to them being raised outside the US or UK, due to 'mixed' parents. If you are not an native speaker of english, you may not notice the accent isn't 'right', but most native speakers of english are not fooled.
I have talked to Asian ladies who have lost life savings to these scammers. Whatever money you have, or can get, is important to them, as it is to you.
West African scammers may also try to get you involved in money laundering, or depositing fake checks or money orders. This may be under the guise of a 'work at home' opportunity, or as a favor for the fake man, who claims to love you. He may say he has paychecks from a company in your country he is having difficulty cashing, and ask you to do it, and send him the proceeds, by Western Union. Please, don't do this! The checks are fake, and will not be detected as such,until after you have sent him the money. You will be repsonsible for reimbursing the funds to the bank, and may be prosecuted for fraud!
There are some real, nice people, online, hoping to meet other real, nice people. I am not trying to scare you, just warn you to not waste time on fake or fraudulent people, and be smart when using the internet to meet people.
Two sites that can help you with scammers, are:
Romancescam.com
Dragonladies.org
Sunday, May 12, 2013
blessingbouma79@yahoo.com SCAMMER
hello
My name is miss blessingbouma,i saw your profile today and became intrested in you,i will also like to know you the more,and i want you to send a mail to my email address so i can give you my picture for you to know whom l am.Here is my email ( blessingbouma79@yahoo.com) believe we can move from here.I am waiting for your mail to my email address above.miss blessing.(Remeber the distance or colour does not matter but love matters alot in life)
blessingbouma79@yahoo.com
Tuesday, May 7, 2013
sarahkiss124@ymail.com SENEGAL Scam

Previously reported at Romancescam.com using a different email address.
Friday, April 26, 2013
Free,safe, dating site needs Ladies from Asia
We have men waiting for nice ladies to join! If you are a nice lady in Malaysia, Indonesia, the Philippines, China, Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, Korea, or Japan, and are serious about meeting someone, please try AsianLonelyHearts.com!
The owner understands Asian women online are subject to harassment, and rudeness from some men. We won't tolerate that. Please join us if you are looking for a decent dating site, that actually cares about the people who are members.
Thursday, April 25, 2013
Dragonladies.org can help you with internet romance scams from Asia, and 'asian' dating
If you are interested in finding a special lady in Asia, Dragonladies.org should be your first stop!
Friday, April 19, 2013
erika.atif@yahoo.com Senegal Scammer
Registered at Asianlonelyhearts.com, one of the few, free dating sites that actually checks new members, and knows what to look for. We do our best to keep scammers out!erika.atif@yahoo.com
pierrasaitoti@hotmail.fr nwigbo.ikechukwu@yahoo.com SCAMMER
This is a scammer from Ivory Coast who registered twice at asianlonelyhearts.com, with a username of Nina300.Never send money to somebody you only know from the internet, or phone calls!
IP: 41.66.13.30
pierrasaitoti@hotmail.fr
nwigbo.ikechukwu@yahoo.com
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Saturday, April 6, 2013
Philippine-singles.com KEEP OUT!
Friday, March 8, 2013
Is a paid dating site any safer, or better?
I have found most paid dating sites are no safer than free ones.
The keys to a safe site are the willingness of the staff to check new profiles, monitor the site activity, and actually have some knowledge of internet romance scammers, modes, and traits.
While most sites will claim to be safe, they are not.
You always need to protect yourself from scammers, and not assume the site is making any real effort to keep scammers out. They don't!
Screening for scammers takes a modest amount of time, which most sites do not wish to spend.
I find it inexcusable that many sites simply do not care about the safety of the members.
There's no reason to have a site full of profiles with stolen pictures of celebrities, other than to play the members for suckers, and make money from them.
Maybe you are thinking 'this is a free site, how do they make money?'
If you notice on most dating sites, as well as other websites, there are various banner ads. These banner ads pay the site owner for clicks, and/or sales derived from a person clicking on the banner, and purchasing a product or service. This can be very lucrative if you have a high amount of traffic.
More traffic=more money
I have seen many large, dating sites that are full of fake profiles. Fake profiles of pretty people, generate more paying members, or traffic. More paying members, or more traffic=more money.
If the profile is truly fake, you will never get that person to respond to you.
If a profile using a stolen picture responds, or contacts you, you are generally in contact with a scammer!
There is a large network of 'paid' dating sites that have pages of pages of pretty, sexy ladies, all who are fake. A man will join, and get flooded with messages from sexy ladies. To reply to them, he has to pay for each message. The lady is totally fake, the purpose of the sites are to make money by these fake messages. Period. The people writing the messages, and pretending to be the pretty lady in the pictures, is actually a college student, male or female, or other person, making a living writing these messages....OR....the messages are actually 'pre-written'.
Most of us in Western countries would not want to make a living writing messages to lonely men for $1-2 dollars, each, but, for a person in a developing country, where a monthly income of $300 a month is a living wage, making money this way is attractive.
I strongly recommend you avoid most paid dating sites, even if you do not patronize my site.
What do you need to do to protect yourself on any dating site?
Never send money to somebody you only know from the internet, or phone calls!
Safeguard your personal data! (Full name, address, phone number, email account that is connected to your Facebook account, and/or you use for personal business, and family.)
Always expect to see 'that face' on webcam!
I'm always amazed that SCAM VICTIMS can go months or years, talking to a scammer, using stolen pictures, and never expect to see a live face on cam. They'll send thousands of dollars to fake people, and accept the various BS stories about 'No cam' the scammer gives.
If the person can get on the internet, they can use a cam. There are no valid excuses.
Seeing a face on cam is an important filtering tool you must learn to use.
If a person won't show a face on cam, and often, you need to assume they are fake, or hiding something. Be polite, but demand to see a face on cam.
Scammers will come up with many excuses, or ask you to send money to them so they can buy a cam.
Don't do it!
Be careful!
AsianLonelyhearts is a new, scam-free, dating site! Curious about what information about you is out there? You may be surprised!
Why should I use a smaller dating site, that is monitored?
Ok, so the site looks 'busy', but in reality, there are much fewer, real people on the site, at that time.
Many dating sites also 'seed' the site with fake members, to make the site look more active, and busy.
Do you know if you want to start a new dating site, it is possible to BUY fake profiles, to 'seed' the site?
I've looked at, and been a member or hundreds of dating sites, either for research, and sometimes as a 'real' member.
Many people seem to be happy with the sites, including many 'paid' sites, that are full of profiles of pretty people, even when the profiles are fake. Wouldn't you rather be a member of a site which is full of real people, you may actually have a chance to talk to?
At AsianLonelyHearts.com, we will screen the new members for scammers, fakes, and 'problem' people, and monitor the activity on the site, without invading the privacy or security of the real people who are members.
I will take the time to do this, which will also mean the site will be slower to grow than most dating sites, and the site will never become a huge, mega site with hundreds of thousands of people, mostly who are fake.
I prefer my members to have a safe experience in internet dating and friendship, and not waste time on fake people or scammers.
Join AsianLonelyHearts.com today, for a free, safe, dating site! Find anybody's photos, videos and blogs instantly. You may be surprised!